The Love of Having a Story
Have you ever heard of the human brain’s “instinct” to share stories? It may sound like common sense, but the story-telling brain is actually very complex. Every story has a beginning, a middle and an end, but how do you begin the storytelling process for your child?
As you research your child’s love of stories, the more you realize that the joys of having a story can actually open up a whole new world for them. Not only do you get to see your child growing, but you also get to learn about the important things in life.
The truth is that stories are easy to tell, especially if they are about something they’re interested in. Then you have no reason to doubt them. You just need to be patient with your child and let them explore their curiosity.
You don’t have to always be right when it comes to stories. Once your child starts telling a story, the great thing about stories is that they’re so exciting and full of surprises. Stories are the best things to teach kids. Your child will find they get so involved in the story that they forget they’re talking to a parent!
Remember, though, that it’s important to be careful not to overshare. Never tell too much about your child’s activities or even about their day. If your child has been talking about their day, then you’re probably giving them too much information.
When your child begins to share their stories, it’s important to give them some time to get used to the idea. You’ll want to listen carefully to everything they’re saying and make sure to focus on their actions as they’re talking. Try to pay attention to the expressions on their faces. Do you notice how they are holding their hands?
After they’ve had time to get comfortable, then you can start doing their own memories. Often you’ll find that the stories are ones that they’ve told you before. They’re usually the ones that involve challenges or triumphs, as well as good relationships and good things happening.
Soon you’ll get a feel for what your child likes. Once you know this, then you can start a routine where you ask them to tell a story. Even better, let them come up with a story together.
If they both seem to enjoy telling the same story, then it’s a good way to help them bond. Your child will be able to see how you reacted when they told the story before, and will be able to see what you’re expecting. They’ll be able to see your reaction when they tell the story, and will probably be able to find a way to have a similar story to tell you.
Since the stories tend to be exciting, it’s a good idea to be surprised when your child tells you a story. This will help your child to be able to react well. The more you surprise your child, the more they’ll grow into becoming a storyteller as they grow older.
Parents need to be able to look back on their lives and remember the good times that are true stories, as well as the ones that were not so great. In doing so, they can encourage their children to follow in their footsteps and be good story tellers.
Our children have grown into their own stories. We don’t just show them the stories. Instead, we encourage them to make them and have them tell them and, most importantly, we support them when they’re telling a story.
