It’s like having a teenage daughter who is not getting along with her father and is not happy with what she is doing in life.
For her not to lose herself in her own private world of self-absorption she can bring her self-esteem back into her father and that will help her feel better about herself.
But you can begin to use affirmations to make them feel better about themselves so that they may then get angry and yell at you for not enabling them enough or not loving them enough.
Everyone has their own inner child soul but not everyone knows how to take control of that inner child. It’s like having a teenage daughter who is not getting along with her father and is not happy with what she is doing in life.
For her not to lose herself in her own private world of self-absorption she can bring her self-esteem back into her father and that will help her feel better about herself. Once she sees the positive sides of her feelings she can take it back out to her father and hopefully see the love coming back into his eyes.
We all have to remember that our souls are attached to our bodies because the self is also linked to our body. The feeling of the joy in the presence of someone who cares about us and loves us, creates more feelings of joy in the heart of the person. If you bring your self-esteem back into your self-centered emotional life, you will be more willing to bring love back into your inner-selves.
By bringing your self-esteem back into your feelings of feeling good about yourself, you will then be able to feel better about yourself in other areas of your life as well. Since you have your inner child soul linked to your body, your body may heal itself as your self-esteem increases.
If you are tired of being a victim of negative feelings in your inner child soul and want to help it become more happy and less self-absorbed, you have to allow it to feel that way. There are ways that you can do this so that it becomes more happy.
The feelings can only change if they want to change, and if they decide to do so then they will. You cannot force a child to want to become happy and to change their feelings.
But you can begin to use affirmations to make them feel better about themselves so that they may then get angry and yell at you for not enabling them enough or not loving them enough. In fact you will be hurting them and they will not understand why you are upset when they yell at you.
They will tell you that you hurt them and that’s not fair because they thought you loved them. You only want to enable them as long as they are not hurting you anymore so that they can become a happy, whole person.
They are giving up their feelings by not being honest with you about what they are feeling. They only want to be positive so that they can make you feel good about yourself.
This is your responsibility as their parent and you can help them to heal their emotional life by not making them feel bad anymore. When they are feeling good about themselves, they can then become more comfortable in expressing their feelings because they feel better.
They are telling you that it’s time for you to let go of your anger and frustration with them and not being able to accept them the way they are because your negative thoughts are controlling them and they want to be treated as a whole person instead of being treated as if they were one half of a whole. They feel confused and sad and they want you to understand them and show them love and acceptance.
Once you get over your anger with your inner child soul and you find yourself in a position to accept them for who they are, they will be happier with you and be better off in their life. Now you will be happy in your inner child soul, and you can take that energy and direct it to be more positive.
